No matter how invaluable you feel or have been made to feel it is only someone elses perception of their own lives. For every moment you have been told you are useless, no good, slapped, kicked, abused, made to feel lower than dirt, you need to tell yourself you are an amazing person, you are worth being loved.
Someone else hard wired your brain to make you think bad things about yourself which is so unfair, but the good news is you can retrain your brain by telling yourself every moment of everyday I am worth being here, I am amazing, I am the light in my own day. Finding your purpose is a natural desire.
We are all worth loving and worth being loved. No matter how shattered life has imbibed us, or how traumatized our world embellished on us. It was not our fault, we were born knowing only love and wanting to be loved. You are so special in this world- life couldn't exist without you.
Every chance you get you tell yourself how amazing you are and soon you will begin to realize those aren't just words, you are the eternal light in your destiny. Believe in your design, have a great understanding to your passion, and in turn allow yourself to be limitless.
New beginnings are inevitable in life. People go through changes that can change the course of their lives forever. Some of these changes are disguised in tragedies, while others are happy changes toward a long sought-after goal.
When nothing is certain in your life, it can be very intimidating. But, you must learn to think of things in a new perspective. Trust the journey and know that amazing things could happen for you!
A fresh start is not always easy, but it is necessary as we journey through our lives. There will be many times throughout your time on this earth that you will begin again.
Sometimes, it’s painful and it will seem more like a tragedy than a happy new beginning. For example, a romantic breakup or the loss of a close friend may make your heartbreak at the moment, but in the long term you may realize that everything happens for a reason and your quality of life improved once that toxic person was removed from your life.
Other times, a fresh start will feel exciting and like you are entering a whole new adventure or chapter of your life! This may come in the form of a move to a new city, a marriage, having children, or starting college. These exciting new things may also come with some nervousness, but with a change that is to be expected. Don’t worry, though, you can handle it!
Often, there are many things holding us back from what we want, but the only way to change it is to make the decision to move forward without them- that’s a fresh start.
So, if you are in the need of a change because things just aren’t feeling quite right, opportunity is knocking. Opportunity will help to inspire you to make the crucial decisions you need to make in order to reach your goals.
Believe in yourself and realize If you are given an opportunity, seize it! The only way you can fail is to let #FEAR guide you.
“Fear and anxiety many times indicates that we are moving in a positive direction, out of the safe confines of our comfort zone, and in the direction of our true purpose.“
—Charles F. Glassman
“Real change is difficult at the beginning, but gorgeous at the end. Change begins the moment you get the courage and step outside your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Internally we, as a society, have an inherent drive for safety, wired into our DNA to seek food, water and shelter for survival. However, once those needs are met, apathy often sets in our mind and the mindset becomes accustomed to certainty.
Staying comfortable suits some people. Have you heard; nothing ventured, nothing gained ? That phrase serves as a reminder that being content does not yield the success we search for.
Well Known Author and researcher Brené Brown writes in: Rising Strong to adopt a curious mindset since this is the foundation to uncertainty and fulfillment: “Choosing to be curious is choosing to be vulnerable because it requires us to surrender to uncertainty. It wasn’t always a choice; we were born curious. But over time, we learn that curiosity, like vulnerability, can lead to hurt.”
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